Do you feel like you have to suffer because you hurt your partners in the past? I think we all have hurt people whether intentional or not, but does this mean that you have to suffer in a relationship that feels like ‘payback’ to you?
Why give someone the power to sentence you to purgatory because of past mistakes..you can start your life over right now if you choose but the resolution has to come from within you cleanse yourself through introspection, through examination and and resolution of learning from your dastardly deeds but don’t think you can climb out of your actions with guilt and shame,
allow penance to be your personal process and not some continual groveling and pity sex…allowing people to make you miserable because of mistake is no way to live, its no way to learn, its no way to grow from the experience.
“keep it moving!”